I Didn’t Lose Myself—I Was Taught to Shrink in a Toxic Relationship

By Nancy Duarte Life Coach | Aug 24, 2026
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I Didn’t Lose Myself—I Was Taught to Shrink in a Toxic Relationship


You didn’t suddenly lose yourself. Little by little, you were taught that your voice was too loud, your needs were too much, and your boundaries were selfish. You learned to shrink—not because you were weak, but because becoming smaller felt safer than being criticized, rejected, or punished.


Healing begins when you recognize that the smaller version of you was never the real you. She was the version who learned how to survive. Now you can stop apologizing for taking up space, trust your voice again, and become the woman you were always meant to be.


My upcoming book, Your Worth Was Never Negotiable, will help you understand the toxic relationships that taught you to abandon yourself—and guide you back to your true identity and worth.


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